So I have a friend (acquaintance) at work who was not invited to my wedding. He's ALWAYS asking me questions about the wedding - how planning is going, how things are coming out. I don't ever actually see him at work, but he IMs me on the office IM system.
I feel bad because I almost invited him then decided against it.
Well, now I'm just a few days out, and I have extra seats at a few tables (tables of 10 - and I pay per table not per head). He keeps bringing up my wedding and talking about it a lot. I actually would like to invite him (just a "hey, if you want, feel free to come"), but then I feel like a jerk for not inviting him in the first place - I mean, obviously, when you're invited over IM 3.5 days before the wedding, you weren't on the guest list...
I'd be fine not inviting him too, but I kind of feel like he's fishing for an invitation, and it really doesn't affect us at all if he comes or not (we are way under capacity).
am I a jerk and ignore his "fishing for an invite"? or am I a jerk and invite him 3.5 days before the wedding?
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