Ok so my parents are divorced and my dad is remarried...I'm not close to him or his wife at all, he is walking me down the aisle but do I have to have her seated special like my mother and my fiance's mother? I really don't want to, besides the fact that my fiance and I are paying for the wedding so it's not like my dad and his wife are helping towards expenses. Also, I'm doing a informal program framed on a table for guests when they walk by to be seated (destination wedding in Naples, FL) and I wanted to know if how I word my parents since they are divorced and do I have to word his wife?