I've been dying my hair various colors since I was 13, and I promised my mom I would be married a blond (my natural color as a kid, no idea what color it is at this point- probably light brown/dark blond). I'm having the hardest time getting the blond right though, since I'm super pale and a little ruddy. I'm going to the Aveda school on Tuesday to get a haircut and lowlights, but I'm kind of clueless on what direction to go. Dark blond or honey blond lowlight? Tone it a different shade? Help!
This is how it looks now under my office's very unflattering florescent lights, (though the bottom isn't actually any darker than the top- that's a weird shadow)