It has become evident that we had a bunch of cards stolen from the card box at our wedding reception. We pretty much know this to be the case due to the fact that the card from my father and stepmom was missing. I knew what they were giving us and her card was certain to be an elaborately handmade creation that would very much be part of the gift. After asking my stepmom about this, I was told they placed a card in the box along with a card from her side of the family - parents/sisters, etc. - wishing us well. Neither of these are there. The certificate they were giving is easily replaced in this situation - the cash in the other envelope will not be. I looked at our guest book and realize there is a block of about 10 people in the middle of the book - none of whom had cards in our card box. Cards from these people would probably be placed in the box right after they walked in, so I'm guessing someone grabbed that particular chunk of cards. A number of these people have given seperate gifts, but in the process of going over thank you notes we realized that pretty much the only people who did not give gifts are in this particular section of the guest list. I definitely don't want to ask if they gave us something, but on the same note I'm really concerned about just not sending a thank you note in the event they did. It's a bit of a conundrum. Any thoughts or ideas on this?