Ok i need some help. Were having a large wedding with alot of booze. Mainly a adult only reception. However....the siblings to the bride and groom ( his sisters and my brother) have small kids and those are the only ones were inviting. The only reason were invited them is because i would catch so much crap from family if i didnt. So there are other small kids in the family ( second cousins) that just assumed they were invited. How does one go about telling them.."sorry, but no kids are invited but the siblings kids" with sounding like a total jack ass. If i wasnt the last kid to get married this wouldnt be happening because now everyone has had their kids. When they all got married no one had kids so they didnt have to worry about it. Any thoughts...