Hey guys, here's my problem. We have a small venue and want to keep the wedding small, intimate, and affordable. We've already written up a 90 person guest list (mostly family and really close friends), but ever since we announced it, people have been talking like they know they're invited.
We haven't even sent out save-the-dates yet! The wedding is June 2012 and I keep getting "Oh good, we'll be in town that weekend!" and "If you need someone to sing at your reception, let me know.
" messages, mostly via public Facebook comments. The problem is that most of these people aren't on our guest list. That's a looonnggg time for someone to just assume they're invited and then find out later that they're not.
What's a tactful way to tell them we're keeping it small? Should I respond to people individually letting them know or should I post a vague "I wish I could invite everyone, but the venue is too tiny!" status update? ...or none of the above? Help!