Okay so I think I'm the right in this situation, but I know you guys will have no problem kicking the shiiiiiit out of me if I'm being a cray cray.
Got a budget from all my BMs. The dress I loved was over one of their budgets, so I sent the BM a private e-mail saying I would pay for the difference. She e-mailed me back and said she thought I asked their budgets for a reason and that it was totally innapropriate and zilla-ish of me to go over budget. I reiterated that I would pay the price difference. She told me that her top price was a strench anyway and she thought that I would respect the top number was a strech and do something more middle of the line. What I resisted telling her was that her budget was a full $100 lower than the next BM. She told me that if I insist on the dresses I can't ask her to lie to the other BMs about paying for the price difference. WTF am I supposed to do with this situation? Pay that difference for all of them? Just scrap it and pick a different dress?