I am having a teeny wedding. 31 people. Mostly our grown children/their spouses, our parents and some close cousins. One of the cousins whom I have invited, lives in another province. I have just heard through the grapevine that her mother (who lives in the same province, and has currenty been vacationing in Arizone for the last 3 months and hasn't been home to check her mail) assumes she is coming to the wedding and is making travel plans to visit everyone when she comes to my wedding. If I do invite her then I will be forced to invite additional aunts and uncles. I want to keep to 30 people. How do I handle this? Yikes.