Some of you might remember my post about my friend (and BM) whose husband died suddenly at age 30. She is doing much better. I want to do everything to make her life as easy as possible right now though and this is one of those weird issues...
I'm soon going to be sending out invitations to my wedding and am trying to figure out what to do with her. 2 issues.
1) Obviously the STD was to her and her husband Mr. and Mrs. H
She has somewhat gone back to her maiden name. (They were only married 5 mo and she knows she'll have to do it eventually and she never got some things changed over but she's still kept it in some cases). Question is: do I address Ms Married Name or Ms Single Name?
2) Do I give her a guest? Her parents are invited. She will literally know 75% of the people there (out of about 250) and many of them are single. I asked her last weekend if she wanted to bring someone (her best friend isn't invited to the wedding but if I were having 50 more people she would be so i thought maybe she might want her there). She got very emotional (it will be her first event w/o her husband) so we talked more about that and I never really got an answer.
help!