I need advice my x has an mid to high 6 figure income and according to public record millions. My husband lost his job and has been out of work for 5 months we have just gone into 6 figures a few time. We will not hit that this year and no new job yet. My x wants us to put in 1/2 the expenses this should be an 80k wedding. He has always been generous with the kids so they expect a very nice wedding.
What should we say to him?