Background info:
Mom & Dad split when I was 13. I am long-since over this.
Dad has failed to attend much of anything since then (and really before that too). Including my sister and my graduation, etc, etc.
Dad is in the airplane industry - frequent layoffs/company changes are normal.
Dad was just laid off. Again.
New info:
I tell my bff that dad is laid off again.
She proceeds to send a mass message to all 7 of my BM's and my FMIL that they need to pool their money and as a gift to me - pay for his ticket from SC. This is uber embarrassing to me as I have not broadcasted this info. Even though dad is laid off, I know he can afford the ticket... It's just one more excuse to annoy me and threaten not to come. Also, I think he would be ashamed if a bunch of 20-somethings offered him 30 bucks a piece to help pay for a ticket.
Am I wrong to be annoyed that this went over my head and the only reason I know that this was going on was because one of them told me they received this message?
**Yes, I know her intentions were good.