Hi...I'm definitely a lurker on here. This is my first post...hopefully I will become a regular here. Ya'll give such blunt responses!! Alright, here's my question: I am an atheist. My family is comprised of total Jesus freaks....ugh. My parents are paying for my wedding, but I do NOT want anyone there who will be all hot and bothered about god not being mentioned (even my parents). What should I do???