Hey there ladies! I'm a little confused on how to put my name on the invites and how my name should be announced by the preacher at the ceremony. So I currently carry my exhusbands last name. I never changed it when we got divorced. Now that I am getting remarried, on the invitations, should I put my name now with my exhusband's last name or put my maiden name??? Also, what will my Officiant say when he asks: " Do you, blah, blah, blah(me) take FI?? Does this even make sense???