I have 2 dilemmas and need help with etiquette.
1. A friend who I was not planning on asking to be a bridesmaid is planning my bridal shower with 2 friends who I was going to ask to be bridesmaids. What do I do? I'm not have bridesmaids in the traditional senses (no matching dresses, etc.) but we are having our informal bridal party invited to more private events. Should I include this friend because she is helping to plan the bridal shower or should I exclude her because we're not that close?
2. A family friend told me to let them know if I needed any help in planning the wedding but I was planning on inviting them to the wedding. What do I do?