I"m getting married in May 2012 and my father passed away in April of this year and i'm having a difficult time deciding who should walk me down the aisle. I have two brothers and my mom thinks my older brother should walk me down the aisle but I'm a lot closer to my other brother. What should I do as I do not want to hurt anyone's feelings but I would prefer the brother I'm closest with to walk me? Should I choose him or my older brother because he's the oldest? Should I let them both walk me half way down the aisle or should I walk arm-in-arm with both. I was also thinking about letting the brother I'm closest with walk me down the aisle and letting my older brother dance during the father/daugther dance. Any suggestions and opinions are greatly appreciated!