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afterparty invites?

We're having a 1:30pm wedding, serving heavy hours'd'overs (never could spell that...) and have to be out of our reception area by six.  We were thinking of having a kind of casual afterparty for dinner and drinks later in the evening at a local bar most likely so we could continue to mingle with guests and well, eat ;)  We have to leave out pretty early the next morning so the traditional post-wedding brunch isn't really an option and we get to see some of these people so rarely.  What is the best way to put the word out about this?  Everyone who is local or is staying in town is welcome, we know some people would have to drive home that evening.  Is this something we can attach to the favors with a map and directions or is that rude? Should I add it to our website and hope people check and spread it by word of mouth? And how would we word it to make it clear that if they come, they are paying for their own drinks and food?  We can't exactly afford two receptions ;) Thoughts and suggestions are welcome, thanks!!
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Re: afterparty invites?

  • Any kind of formal invitation means that you are hosting, ie paying for, the after party.  Put the word out to a handful of strategic people in various circles that you guys will be at X place from Y-Z time and then let those people circulate it. 
  • Spread the afterparty news by word of mouth.  Have family help with this especially if you want to make sure that the info gets to certain people.  Let them know that everyone is welcomed to continue the celebration at X place at Y time.  A formal invitation will imply that you are paying.

  • Thank you all!
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