Hello, ladies! I have a question about RSVP deadlines. My deadline is May 15, and I have a lot of people that haven't sent their cards back yet. There are people in mine and FI's families that aren't much for deadlines (i.e. they probably won't bother to send the card back, but will show up anyway).
Is it okay to call guests that I haven't received responses from? If so, when should I start making phone calls? The caterer needs the head count by June 1. I know this is on TK checklist, but the knot has endorsed some questionable etiquette practices before, so I just wanted to check with you all.
Thanks in advance for your advice!