So I lucky and my parents have given me a budget for my wedding. My concern is my fiance's family, no one on is side has volunteered to pay for anything, I am okay with this thanks to my generous parents. How can I handle the concerns/critisisms they will have without being snotty about them not volunteering to pay? I have been through this with them before, they don't volunteer but they don't hesitate to tell me what I did wrong. I just want to be polite but not let them make me feel bad, any thoughts...