We are allowing my FI parents to invite 70 people. FI and I are paying 100% of the wedding costs. We sent out the STDs and a few of their friends said they would not be able to attend. So now they want us to replace those guests with new people.
I understand we should still send an invitation because things might change but what if the inlaws requests that we don't?
My FI feels we should let them do whatever they want because it is their friends so we should not care if they break etiquette rules.
What are your thoughts?
Wedding date July 7, 2012