I work in a small office of about 8 people. Recently we've hired on a new CPA, he's not in a management position, he basically just offices with us and acts like everyone is his personal secretary.
I'm inviting everyone in the office (probably, there's another person I'm also on the fence about) but I don't want to invite him!! He is a rude, sexist, racist, bible-beater (contradictive, I know) who tells offensive jokes and stories and treats people like crap. I don't want him anywhere near my wedding for fear that he will offend other guests and drink my open bar into a dry well.
That being said, do I have to invite him if I'm inviting everyone else?! I'm leaving my job three weeks before my wedding anyway so I won't have to be there to deal with the awkwardness. I feel like a bad person though, I keep putting people on my invite list because I don't want to hurt feelings but why do I care about hurting his feelings if I don't even like him?! Thanks in advance!