Hello - I hope someone can help me with this situation. I am getting married in the fall and I still live in my family's home. With us, lives my Aunt. Her son, his girlfriend and daughter live in FL and I am not very close with any of them. I have not sent out invitations yet, but he and his family have already invited themselves to the wedding. And they have gone as far as telling my Aunt to have the guest room ready for them so they can stay over, at my family's house, before the wedding. The house isn't very big. And on the day of, I will have my mother, my 4 bridesmaids, the photographer, the videographer and the hair and make up team there getting us ready. I feel like there will be too much going on the night before and the day of to have to stop what we are doing and tend to out of town guests. Not to mention that they will also need to share the bathroom - with 6 women! I tried to talk to my mother about this and I asked her to talk to her sister to tell her son to stay at a hotel at least for the night before, but my mother doesn't even want to touch on the subject with her sister as to not create ill-feelings. I don't want to cause tension between family members, but I also don't feel like we should be imposed upon either. Getting ready somewhere other than my family home isn't an option for me as I want to leave my family home in my gown and go to the church to get married. Any advice?