My parents "helped" me with Save the Dates by giving me labels so I blindyly sent them...however we now realize we are inviting 250 people!! (400 total with my FI family) The venue can only hold 300 though...my only option is to cut those we didnt send STD's to and possibly cut the "and family" part...any other suggestions? Im so frustrated I feel like just canceling the whole thing and plan a very small weddingn for my immediate family only...