So my MOH is a fabulous person and wants to be very involved. I have told her it is not necessary but she is so excited and happy to plan a bachelorette party and a shower. I have known her for almost 30 years and I love her to pieces and appreciate her. Especially since she has 3 young boys and is finding the time to plan things for me. I am forever grateful.
She asked about going to Vegas for a bachelorette party, which was very sweet as she knows I love Vegas, but I told her that spending a lot of money was not an option. She offered miles for a plane fare which I told her I felt bad to accept but she insisted. We found a very inexpensive hotel which I've stayed at before which costs only 250 for 3 days which is a fabulous deal. So we booked the trip. She asked who I wanted to invite but I didn't care if not one other person came because I would be incredibly happy if was even just us. I said I will throw it out there to others to see who would like to join us.
The issue is that I know a lot of people through my MOH who I have known for years, but would not speak to on a normal basis, if it weren't for gettting together at MOH's house for kid's parties, etc. One of the her friend's who I have known for years but am not close to but do really enjoy found out about Vegas and wants to go. I know she'd be a lot of fun but I feel weird being that she's not invited to the wedding. She does not expect to be invited, but I don't know how to handle this.
She keeps telling MOH to let her know about Vegas and that it will be so much fun, but do I not ask her to go? I know she does not expect to be invited to the wedding but if someone is at the bacheolorette party, especially a destination party, would it be expected to include them in the weddng invite?
Thoughts?