So my fiance is having a hard time picking a best man. He finally chose one and when he asked him, he said he didn't know and that he'd have to think about it. I kinda thought that was a little weird. So if his friend decides not to be his best man, is it okay for my fiance to not have a best man at all? He doesn't have a brother, and all of his friends are all equally as close to him. It was so hard for him to decide on one guy and then for this guy to say he didn't know, sucks. He's totally confused. If he decides not to do it and my fiance decides to not have a best man at all, should I not have a maid of honor? I'm just confused on how to address this situation.