My fiance and I have been debating about this but I cant seem to find a firm answer about this issue. Does the bride and groom pay for the rooms of the out of town guests? Im not sure how that all works. I knew that we should reserve rooms but I wasnt sure if there was a cost to reserve them then the guest pays a discount for the room. We cant really afford to pay for peoples rooms. Whats the right way to do it? What are all of you doing?