FI not on Invitation

mari0225

So a friend of mine, send me an invitation to her wedding next month but FI's name isn't on there. Is it okay to RSVP for two or should I just go alone?

cengle

I would call and ask if he's invited. It may have been an oversight on their part, or someone other than the bride or groom may have addressed the invitations.

If he's not invited, that's rude on their part, and it's up to you whether to decline or attend by yourself.

ahhhitsshannyn

Do not RSVP with both of you if you are not sure if he is invited. Just call her up and ask if he is invited, she should know that you are engaged and it could have been a mistake. It is better if you to call and ask than it is of you to just add on someone without asking.

Bkseller13

I'd call her and ask rather than just RSVP-ing for two.  That way, if it was a legitimate "oops", she can tell you so. 

mari0225

Okay that's what I thought, just wanted to make sure.

achiduck

Yup, I'd definitely call her. It may have been an oversight on her part.