Wedding Etiquette Forum

Bridal Shower and RSVP's

Hi All,

My mom is throwing me a surprise bridal shower.  The deadline for the shower was yesterday.  She has 13 people that have not called to RSVP yet (including fmil and his immediate family) and some co-workers of mine (one is my boss).

I thought about waiting a few days and have my mom call FMIL to advise that there are several outstanding responses on her side of the family and ask her for help to call the offenders.  I was thinking this would show her how RUDE it is not RSVP. 

I am stuck about my co-workers. Should I give my mom their telephone numbers to reach out or just assume they are not coming?

What is the proper way to handle this? 

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