So... my future mother in law is very nice and means well, but she can be a bit oblivious at times.
My main issue is that she wants to invite all of her in-town friends who are already on the wedding guest list, because "it's my party for him." I have told her that I really think it should be limited to close family, wedding party and out of town guests, but she insists on inviting a select extra chunk of people. She wants to have a fun party, I understand and totally get that! But, at the end of the day I just don't think it's really nice to have her and her husband's friends at the dinner while my parents are off on their own with my family. Advice? Anyone? Bueller?