Hello Ladies, I first want to say that I really enjoy coming to this board and reading the posts. I'm not the most P.C. person and I've learned a lot here. With that being said I have to tell you that I am a little put off by some of the posters here. I've read several posts where someone is venting and people go straight for the kill by calling them judgmental and a bad person. I understand that sometimes we feel frustrated and need to speak how we feel in that MOMENT! After a good vent the moment has passed and everything is back to normal. Personal attacks on a poster's character are being made by one post. Are you serious? All I want to say is that you all are very intelligent women and I would like to believe that people have good intentions when they post a VENT. Is it really necessary to call them a bad person, or friend, or wife to be, or whatever?? Okay, I'll get off my soap box now. I just had to point my observation from a newbie perspective and I would hate for anyone to stop coming here for fear of walking on eggs shells.