I am the mother of the bride A.K.A. Momzilla...as my sweet daughter calls me! Its all in love and fun though! ...Ok with that aside I have a question. All the bridesmaids live out of town and are not available for a bachelorette party. Her fiance is not much into the bachelor party thing....So I was wondering.....Can I plan a party that would be in place of both of those parties and add the family so we can all meet before the shower and wedding? I would like to have it at a fun place with entertainment and cocktails and food. I would like the invites to say that if they would like to contribute to a monetary gift for the couples honeymoon "fun" money to send with the rsvd. Would this be acceptable?