So, my fiance's mother is a lovely lady...but her one request was to have her daughter - who is 7 years younger than me and who I am not at all close to - be included as a bridesmaid...I however, decided that I don't want bridesmaids - it's an expense, it's a hassle, I don't see the point and I would literally have to have like 9 bridesmaids and that is just insane. I'm also in my 30's and most
of my friends are really over the bridesmaid thing. SO, I decided to just have my sister be my MOH and keep it at that...but my future mother in law is kind of upset about it and I feel bad...should I just include her? It just seems weird to me to have my sister and then his sister who I am not even close to just to do it. Oh, and my future mother in law is ill with cancer AND it's very likely that this will be the family's only wedding. What should I do - am I a jerk? Oh and my wedding is soon - 3 months. Help!