I am a bride to be, but in my good friend's wedding coming up. For my wedding, we are doing it small and I do not plan on having a bridal party. For my friend, on the other had, she is having 8 people on eaach side stand up. Is it proper ettiquette to ask your bridemaids to have mani/pedi's, hair and makeup done at their own expense, when the bride isn't even asking them forst and the price is going to cost them $200/each??? Is it wrong to ask to not have your makeup done? Please help!