We are budgeted for 150 people for our reception. The problem is that we have about 150 out of town family coming. (all our family is oot!:)) My fiance is the young adult pastor at our church... and we REALLY want to include our church family. We are thinking of doing the ceremony at church and doing a mini reception immdediately afterward at the church to include everyone... But only our oot family will be at our dinner reception that evening. I know its against etiquette but I have to include these people somehow! Any thoughts? Suggestions? How would I do invites??