We're trying to set a wedding date, and FI likes the idea of a June (2013) wedding in Hawaii. My stepdaughter is graduating high school that month on the 14th, and FI thinks it would be cool to go for her graduation trip and our wedding. I like this idea in theory, but the only dates that work for my side of the family are approximately the 15th through the 21st.
My only issue with these dates is that they fall on Father's Day in some years. FI has a 5-year-old daughter too, and his custody arrangement calls for us to have her every Father's Day weekend. I feel like if we choose one of these dates, there will be at least a couple occasions where we'll have to choose between turning her down on Father's Day weekend (which I would never push for) or not celebrating our anniversary (which isn't appealing to me either).
I'm thinking about compromising and asking if we can do the trip in July. Or am I overthinking this/PMSing/having a case of the Mondays?