Bachelorette Party

Cait Thody

Although the bride shouldn't spend a dime on this night, how much did you spend being in the bridal party?

berrda04

my sister is in my bridal party, but is not going to my bachelorette party.. neither is my cousin.. but my cousin is prego and we're going to the beach for my party.. and my sister is already spending enough to actually fly to ohio for my wedding.. so really i dont think it should matter if you can't participate in an extravagant bach party...

Cait Thody

Thanks all,

I took down the original post after I realized my name was posted with it, ( I was hoping to have an anonymous post) I don't want to upset my friend, it's her wedding after all,, but I am a little concerned that she's getting swept along with the whole commercial wedding experience and might not realize how much this means her friends are having to invest as well.

brookelynpaisley

I meant I would change your username to something other than Cait Thody if your name is Cait Thody. We don't have anonymous posts here.

Cait Thody

It turns out you can't change your user name. Buggar!

Cait Thody

Although, my name isn't Cait Thody anymore. GO married names!

[Deleted User]

It's fun to say the name Cait Thody.

nda_roxybabe

Nebb, I've never figured out how people have done it before but then you said "I cant go back to get it" and I remembered how wonderful my back button is! I'll have to remember it for the future.

brookelynpaisley

Yeah, but you only have 4 posts. You could just make a new one. Just saying. People could still figure out who you are.

Cait Thody

I'm curious to know how you think it's pronounced

Nebb

I tried pressing back and it just kept refreshing to the new page

[Deleted User]

Just like it looks, but I'm assuming from your post that I'm wrong, so how am I supposed to be pronouncing it?

Cait Thody

It's funny, for most people "just how it looks" is "Th-awd-ee"

But I've have Tah-dee too. Or Toe-dee

It's "Th-oh-dee". I was glad to take my husband's name and get something people can spell and say. It never made me mad, and usually made me giggle!

Mrs_AF

Kate Toe-Dee? Is that the right pronunciation?

sucrets4

I got it right!  I totally thought it was Th-oh-dee!

brookelynpaisley

I would have said Thody. It looks like it rhymes with Brody

ohwhynot

I kept singing "Go tell Cait Thody" to the tune of "Go tell Aunt Rhody," so I guess I got it right, too.  I feel a small thrill of accomplishment. 

MyNameIsNot

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bride-asking-much-financially-of-her-bridal-party?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6125d8a3-d9c3-49e9-be6d-705ebe511583Post:147cb163-0fe9-408e-9b09-611d560f9ffb">Re: Bachelorette Party</a>:
[QUOTE]Thanks all, I took down the original post after I realized my name was posted with it, ( I was hoping to have an anonymous post) I don't want to upset my friend, it's her wedding after all,, but I am a little concerned that she's getting swept along with the whole commercial wedding experience and might not realize how much this means her friends are having to invest as well.
Posted by Cait Thody[/QUOTE]

<div>If she did all the stuff that I gather, she deserves to be upset.  </div><div>
</div><div>A $400, a stag and doe, expecting a blow out b-party, and on and on.  </div><div>
</div><div>Your friend sounds like a greedy pig.  </div>

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bride-asking-much-financially-of-her-bridal-party?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6125d8a3-d9c3-49e9-be6d-705ebe511583Post:08bab33a-6e85-48d8-8d72-3a47b3b3b3b1">Re: Bachelorette Party</a>:
[QUOTE]It's funny, for most people "just how it looks" is "Th-awd-ee" But I've have Tah-dee too. Or Toe-dee It's "Th-oh-dee". I was glad to take my husband's name and get something people can spell and say. It never made me mad, and usually made me giggle!
Posted by Cait Thody[/QUOTE]

<div>I thought it was Thoa-dee, but I also suspect it could be Toe-dee.</div>