To my understanding (and maybe I'm off base), if someone is invited to and attends the bridal shower, shouldn't they receive a wedding invite as well?
Reason I ask, my FMIL is insisting on throwing me a bridal shower with a bunch of her family members I've never met. Now, my FFIL has agreed to pay for up to 50 people for the catered portion of the wedding. If in fact the answer to my question above is a yes, would it be fair to ask for her to pay for the additional people we will have to add to our wedding guest list (and their spouses/significant other/children)?
Thanks in advance!