My fiance has two 1st cousins who we've asked to help with the guest book and programs at the ceremony. I have about 15 second cousins that my mom insists I should involve somehow. Fiance says 9 junior attendants would be ridic, and I think he's right. i thought about having some of the little ones hold baskets of rose petals, etc., for guests to grab and throw when we leave the church. Ideas?