BIL is getting married tomorrow. His is the baseball-themed, potluck, cash bar trainwreck of a wedding I've posted about before.
I just found out BIL and his FI have asked everyone to dress in Cincinnati Reds gear. Some people are planning on wearing t-shirts and gym shorts.
I have plenty of Reds clothing, but it's all really casual. I know they're going for a casual vibe, but I cannot bring myself to wear shorts to a wedding. I have never NOT worn a dress to a wedding. My parents brought me up to think that weddings = suits for men and dresses for ladies.
Should I suck it up and wear what everyone else is wearing, or should I wear what I think is appropriate for a wedding?