If you are a BM in a wedding that requires air travel to get to where the bride and all of her pre-wedding thingies are located, would you fly in JUST for things like the shower or the bachelorette party?
If you are a bride with OOT wedding party members, would you expect them to fly in JUST for showers and bachelorette parties? Would you be butthurt if they didn't?
Is that over the top and expecting too much, or is that just something a BM should plan to spend for when they agree to be in your wedding party?
(If you have never been in either of these situations, what do you think your standpoint would be if you were?)
"Whatever East. You're just mad I RSVP'd "lame" to your pre-wedding sleepover."