Should We Invite Them

crash0120

My fiance and I live and work in Albuquerque, NM but are getting married in my hometown of Cleveland, OH.

We both know that our bosses and co-workers won't be able to make it, but should we invite them none the less?

We are also planning on hosting a party back in New Mexico for all of our friends and co-workers back here. Does that count and get us off the hook when it comes to inviting these same people?

anna.oskar

I invited anyone that I actually wanted at our wedding.  Regardless of whether they could make it.  If you were getting married in town, would you invite them?

shellydiane820

Think to youself "Is it important for these people to see you get married?"  You have your answer right there.

sucrets4

You're THAT close with your bosses and coworkers that you're going to invite them all?

Remember that you're not obligated to invite them to you wedding.  At all.

danieliza1127

You're not obligated to invite co-workers or bosses, and if you don't socialize with them outside of work, then  you really shouldn't invite them.  In your case, I wouldn't invite them to the OH wedding.  The party when you get back is good enough for co-workers and bosses, and even unnecessary really.