My grandfather passed away a year before my wedding, and my fiance, who was really close with his grandfather, lost his grandfather a few years ago. We want to put a note in the program saying something to the effect of "We want to remember <grandfather's name>, who isn't with us today, but wish he was..." or something. I'm horrible at wording things!!! How would you word it so that both grandfathers are included, but it's not awkward? Like "We want to remember the bride's grandfather and the groom's grandfather?" or... something? Obviously I have no idea what I'm doing.... help!