My Bridesmaids chose to wear the same dress, even though they were given the option to wear different styles. They all say they love the style and the color chosen.
One of the girls has put on a large amount of weight very recently. Her dress does not fit. She tried on one of the other girls dresses which was in the largest size made, and it still didn't fit by a good margin. She decided to try to lose weight, and has not. She notified me that she went back to where we ordered the dresses, and tried to order an additional dress in the largest size made. She felt she could get into it by the wedding. They have discontinued the dress and the color we chose. It is not available anywhere.
I have asked her repeatedly if she just wants to choose a different dress that will fit her comfortably, and told her it doesn't matter to me what she wears. She refuses.
Now she has informed me that she wants to collect the fabric removed from the alterations of the other girls dresses, and "patch" hers together so it will fit.
I'm struggling with the image this creates in my mind. She is telling me not to worry, she will handle it. Do I just let this go?
