BM F/U

mwhitson14

So BM/bff(?) wrote on my wall, I got your mail, check your mail soon, love ya, something like that.

I admit I'm slightly nervous, though the love ya makes me feel better. Not sure why she couldn't just call or text with the answer, even though that's not her style.

Now the waiting anxiously begins. Maybe it won't take too long?

danieliza1127

I don't know what any of this is about.

Does she mean U.S. mail or e-mail?

sucrets4

What mail?  I knew there were some issues, but I missed the part about mailing something.

georgia_bride09

Well, I guess that's a start. Maybe she was just in an anti-social mood. I go through them sometimes, and while I probbly wouldn't leave a friend hanging as to whether or not I'd stand up for her on her wedding day, maybe she just had to deal with some stuff. Maybe the move to Nashville was streessful or something. Anyway, I hope it works out for y'all, and you can take her BM dress to your bachelorette and she can have it altered by your wedding.

sarah0725

I feel like I missed a chapter in here as well. I remember the troubles you were having with your BM, but I'm not sure I knew you guys were talking again?

mwhitson14

I mailed her a letter, so I'm guessing she mails US Mail too.

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_what-to-do

mwhitson14

Sarah, sorta kinda but not a lot. Things just aren't the same.

SwedishChick2011

Weird.  Maybe there's something crazy going on in her life or something. 

mwhitson14

Coco, there's always something crazy going on in her life. She is dramaz.

Thanks georgia. I just want to know where she stands!

J&K10910

Is this the same one that randomly decided she wanted nothing to do with anyone from her "old" life anymore, including you? 

georgia_bride09

Waitaminnit... your & is back, J!!

sarah0725

I just read the other thread.

I'm sorry to hear about all this, Whit. I have similar drama with my "best friend", and after some things she pulled this summer, I don't think I'm ever going to feel the same way about her, even though we're still going to be in each other's weddings (hence the quotation marks). I don't know what to tell you to do, other than to work on developing an ironclad heart, and lean on your FI. That's what I'm trying to do, with limited success.

J&K10910

Yup, Georgia, Sucrets clued me in last night that she read on the mod board that some people's SNs with the ampersand were working again.  So I tried it, and sure enough it is!  Now I can't edit my profile, sig, or avatar, but with patience maybe those things will come back too.  I have to admit it does through me off to see the flower child avatar and then realize it's my post though.

mwhitson14

JK, it is. She apologized and we made up but things haven't been the same.

Thanks Sarah. I have a feeling after the wedding we aren't going to be much of friends anymore.