FI and I were invited to a wedding that took place in mid-May. We could not attend, but sent a very nice gift ahead of the wedding. We received the thank you card last night, Clearly the almost 4 month delay was because of the incredible time and effort it took the bride to write, "Thank you for the X and Y. We use it all the time." There was no other writing in the card. And she spelled my name wrong on the envelope too. /grrr