My cousin, who I used to be VERY close with, like best friends, was a BM.... for like a week... I wasn't going to ask her because she has basically been a horrible friend, not coming to see my new house in over a year when she lived 10 minutes down the road and ditching me every time we made plans and things like that (BTW a year before I planned and threw her baby shower)... so after not seeing her for months, she finally decided to stop by and apologized for basically being a horrible friend (I also told her my mind and was very blunt about it)
SOOOO after that I told her she could be included, but she had to make it to EVERY event (I'm not like that for anyone else, just her since I know her track record) and if she missed one dress fitting, etc. she wouldn't be included.... She missed the very first thing, our engagement party... Never called me to apologize and I haven't even heard from her since then (It was in May)..
My question is, would it be horrible not to invite her to the wedding? We are having a hard time fitting in other people already and I really feel like I don't want anything to do with her anymore. I know it is only ONE person so it isn't a big deal, but I feel like she doesn't deserve to be there... the only reason I would consider inviting her still is because I don't want the family drama... but I really, really do not want her there at all!