So I actually already had my wedding, but I have an etiquette type question. We had almost 10 people who just didn't show up on the day of the wedding. I was not pleased, to say the least. (did I mention 9 were from his family??) 4 of them we found out afterwards were sick, which I guess, what can you do. Others had various excuses. However, his great aunt and uncle just didn't show. No phone call to anyone (even now, over a month afterwards). They sent a card in the mail, with no explanation or anything. So, when we go to write our thank-you's, is it appropriate to throw in a line like "so sorry you weren't able to make it to the wedding?" Or is that being a huge b*tch? What do you think? Thanks!