My mothers cousin has garciously offered to host a shower for me at her house in April. It will be a Jack and Jill shower for our whole extended family (around 50-75 people). We have parties like this all the time. She is co-hosting with my mother. She has asked if we could send out STDs for the shower. I think this is really strange, I mean, I sent STDs for the wedding but I've never seen it done for a shower. My mom was planning on just doing invites around a month before. Plus I'm pretty sure most of the family either already knows about it or will soon, things don't exactly stay secret in our family. So should we send them? Or would people be confused, they already got the wedding STD.

180 invited

145 are ready to party

35 are missing out

0! can't find the mailbox
rsvp's due back June 20th!