FFF

AddieCake

Here are mine: 

The Boob Job Drama on WP, of course. 

The Athiest who wants a Catholic priest to perform her ceremony. 

The girl on CC who will only share her wedding colors if you PM her. Because that's just weird. 

mlg78

Ha! The girl crying over her FSIL "venue poaching" when she herself hasn't even booked the venue and has been engaged for years already.

TheVirginians

EVERY WIFE who wants a do-over wedding, because they DESERVE it. I am thinking of the poster who pulled the cancer card when told she could have a great vow renewal party.

misshart00

I flame knot whoever who took down the boob job drama thread and the one related to it on cc.

SlothGoals

The Athiest reallllly grinded my gears! Her "Challenge accepted" reply to not being able to find a priest to marry them outdoors/outside the church was so beyond ignorant I wanted to punch her through the screen.

[Deleted User]

Addie - link to the Catholic/Atheist post? I'm interested to read.

And I second Lia's post. WTF are people doing to get into such drama with people who are supposedly their best friends??

[Deleted User]

Oh and I forgot. Double flame to boob job for her flippant treatment of body dismorphic disorder. That was heinous.

AddieCake

Yeah....I'm not even religious, and she offended me with that attitude. 

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_ceremony-ideas_atheist-catholic

daveANDkristen

I flame aarvark in this thread for completely missing the point about why it's douchey to make all of your BMs wear matching hairstyles, shoes, and jewelry (unless you're picking up the tab).  Then she supposed that she was just brought up differently, to do anything the bride wants to show your support.  It just really rubbed me the wrong way.

ETA: Link here http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_picking-shoes-for-bms_.0 in case

SlothGoals

This is her post on Catholic Weddings:

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_catholic-weddings_im-an-atheist-marrying-a-catholic

She got so much understanding and good advice and yet still argued with them about not being "understood"

AddieCake

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-105?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6c6fe549-e150-46f7-9476-5c235f132e1cPost:366ba848-5397-482b-9ea6-6f3339337b3e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame aarvark in this thread  for completely missing the point about why it's douchey to make all of your BMs wear matching hairstyles, shoes, and jewelry (unless you're picking up the tab).  Then she supposed that she was just brought up differently, to do anything the bride wants to show your support.  It just really rubbed me the wrong way. ETA: Link here <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_picking-shoes-for-bms_.0">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_picking-shoes-for-bms_.0</a>  in case
Posted by daveANDkristen[/QUOTE]

<div>Ahhh, I had stopped reading that one fairly early on and didn't know that was in there. Sheesh. </div><div>
</div><div>I agree, Lia. I have never had so much drama with my friends as these people!</div>

kmmssg

I've never done FFF and I don't wanna sound like a broken record here but...

Atheist poster.  Not because she's atheist, but because she is an immature spoiled little girl who has NO idea how disrespectful she is being to the Catholic Church.  For someone who said she was agreeing to let her children be raised in the Church, she certainly wants to disrespect it.  And don't even get me started on the "challenge accepted" remark.

Boob Job Boob Bride - I haven't seen that level of ignorance on here in a very long time.  Way over the top and obviously one of the most insecure posters we have had in a long time.

Knot whoever for deleting the Boob Job Boob Bride's 2 posts.  Are we gonna have to sing Kumbaya around here with everyone?

The venue poaching thing was ridiculous.  Nuff said.

Viczaesar

I have to second the flame of Knot Irene for deleting not only the boob job thread but also the thread on Chit Chat. I flame Savannah as well for being stupid enough to act like a witch and then freely post her personal information so that strangers can validate how pretty she thinks she is.

AddieCake

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-105?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6c6fe549-e150-46f7-9476-5c235f132e1cPost:9a21dbb3-d007-4880-8211-0c897cdfd7db">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]This is her post on Catholic Weddings: <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_catholic-weddings_im-an-atheist-marrying-a-catholic">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_catholic-weddings_im-an-atheist-marrying-a-catholic</a> She got so much understanding and good advice and yet still argued with them about not being "understood"
Posted by kristbot[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh, wow. I am offended that she took that attitude to the Catholic board!  "I'll just lie"?  WTF</div>

AddieCake

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-105?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6c6fe549-e150-46f7-9476-5c235f132e1cPost:64aff491-0b33-4ed3-a4af-052d9c8b7432">Re:FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Ha! The girl crying over her FSIL "venue poaching" when she herself hasn't even booked the venue and has been engaged for years already.
Posted by mlg78[/QUOTE]

<div>Hahaha!  Yeah, I noticed you seemed pretty enraged by that one. </div>

itzMS

Mine goes out to the bride with "Camo Tux" issues on A&A. Her OP indicated she was devastated that her FI was so adamant about wearing a full camo tux, and then when posters encouraged her to stand up to FI and provided options, she copped an attitude. Lame.


Also, non-TK related, but an honorary flame goes out to the couple who's wedding invitation I just got in the mail...for their October 5, 2013 wedding.

KatWAG

I have never done chimed in for the FFF either, and I completely agree with the boob job, venue poaching, and the challenge accepting atheist.

But mine was on Mom's and Maids. The bride who wanted her maids to wear an expensive and universally unflatterring dress plus wedding uggs and didnt seem to understand why the BMs werent excited.

misshart00

In Response to Re:FFF:[QUOTE]Atheist poster.nbsp; Not because she's atheist, but because she is an immature spoiled little girl who has NO idea how disrespectful she is being to the Catholic Church.nbsp; For someone who said she was agreeing to let her children be raised in the Church, she certainly wants to disrespect it.nbsp; And don't even get me started on the "challenge accepted" remark. Posted by kmmssg[/QUOTE]

What really got me with her is that she wanted a catholic priest to marry them "for her fianc." But she wante to get married outside the church and with no mention of God. Don't think that's going to fly with a priest.

daveANDkristen

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-105?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6c6fe549-e150-46f7-9476-5c235f132e1cPost:42528f38-3d8c-4f45-8bff-fa0138e3c43e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I have never done chimed in for the FFF either, and I completely agree with the boob job, venue poaching, and the challenge accepting atheist. But mine was on Mom's and Maids. The bride who wanted her maids to wear an expensive and universally unflatterring dress plus wedding uggs and didnt seem to understand why the BMs werent excited.
Posted by KatWAG[/QUOTE]

Yep, cosigned.  I seriously want to know what that mess of a WP is going to look like. 

lyndausvi

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-105?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6c6fe549-e150-46f7-9476-5c235f132e1cPost:35b51aa2-026b-41ac-9c93-a0dbd9a2708d">FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Here are mine:  The Boob Job Drama on WP, of course.  The Athiest who wants a Catholic priest to perform her ceremony.  The girl on CC who will only share her wedding colors if you PM her. Because that's just weird. 
Posted by AddieL73[/QUOTE]

Ditto to all these.

As a non-practicing Catholic I was offended by Athiest/Catholic thread.   She got some great advice.  Too bad she was too closed-mined to realized it.  And what kind of practicing Catholic is her FI that he could not explain the doctrine to her?   He might not know the specifics, but he certainly knew that God would have to be apart of the ceremony and some other basics that she didn't know.

SlothGoals

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-105?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6c6fe549-e150-46f7-9476-5c235f132e1cPost:0513dc9b-9d67-4d9b-b251-bdd3f82dddae">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Oh, wow. I am offended that she took that attitude to the Catholic board!  "I'll just lie"?  WTF
Posted by AddieL73[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I know! It was ridiculous. The ladies there handled it really well; I would have biitched her out.

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beardownbchs

I want to flame the girl on WP who wants to kick her sisters with anxiety disorders out of her wedding party because they aren't enthusiastic and don't want a clutch. After she dismissed my advice twice, I gave her bad advice that would apply to her bad attitude and she threatened to report me. Clearly that went over well.

And the girl on M&M who wants to kick out her MOH becuse she is in another wedding 3 days before OPs.

EDIT: And obviously, the boob job girl and the atheist. As an athiest myself, that pissed me off.

s-aries8990

I flame the Athiest bride- I participated in the Catholic board post. If you don't wanna be Catholic, you don't have to be, but if you want a Catholic wedding, you have to follow the rules. It's not that hard of a concept to understand.

The boob job drama bride & Knot Irene- because I will never know Savannah's response to the red tittly tassles I found for her FSIL.

And to the Bride on customs & traditions who wants to do the dollar dance at her wedding to her ex-husband....

SlothGoals

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-105?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6c6fe549-e150-46f7-9476-5c235f132e1cPost:0ec78f78-f773-4f73-9ea6-37ee1033bb41">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I want to flame the girl on WP who wants to kick her sisters with anxiety disorders out of her wedding party because they aren't enthusiastic and don't want a clutch. After she dismissed my advice twice, I gave her bad advice that would apply to her bad attitude and she threatened to report me. Clearly that went over well. And the girl on M&M who wants to kick out her MOH becuse she is in another wedding 3 days before OPs.
Posted by beardownbchs[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Omg I forgot about that thread on WP! That girl was a jerk, I can't believe that if her sister's have been living with anxiety all their lives she didn't know this reaction was a possibility. 

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[Deleted User]

OMG I forgot about the Uggs girl. Yeah, that was a hot mess.

Having just read through both Atheist threads, I'm pretty sorry I missed that. That relationship is in some serious trouble if she thinks the only difference will be debating about where to have the ceremony. As someone marrying someone who was raise Christian and is now pretty much agnostic, we have had debates over this for YEARS and will probably continue to do so our whole lives. It's not an open and close thing. I also feel bad for her FI. If she bullies him into not getting married in the church, the wedding won't be valid in the eyes of the church which can lead to difficulties when kids do come into the picture and he wants to raise them in the church...UGH...

beardownbchs

Oh! And the Dddy's girl on the BUDGET board asking for a breakdown of her entire wedding costs, including fireworks and boudoir photos so her dad "could sleep at night". on the BUDGET BOARD.  We're not going to do your research for you.

lyndausvi

Oh there is a girl on C&T who wants to have an outdoor ceremony in JULY in AZ because she does not want a boring ballroom wedding.   Now she wants it at 7pm.  I'm sorry, but no one wants to be outside at 7pm in July in AZ.  It's still too damn hot.

SlothGoals

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-105?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6c6fe549-e150-46f7-9476-5c235f132e1cPost:8fb48e17-5c28-4d85-bfba-1efc7cf836a0">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Harry, can you link me to your pinterest?
Posted by Liatris2010[/QUOTE]

<div>Co signed</div>

misshart00

In Response to Re:FFF:[QUOTE]I want to flame the girl on WP who wants to kick her sisters with anxiety disorders out of her wedding party because they aren't enthusiastic and don't want a clutch.nbsp;After she dismissed my advice twice, I gave her bad advice that would apply to her bad attitude and she threatened to report me. Clearly that went over well.Posted by beardownbchs[/QUOTE]

I forgot about that one. What did she not understand about stop talking to them about the wedding? Just tell them when and where and the dress.

Chloeagh

What happened on the boob job thread? I can't believe I missed that. I got from sydaries's siggy that FSIL got a boob job and bride is unhappy?

And of course flame the athiest for everything (besides actually being an athiest, of course, because I have more respect for other religions than her).

misshart00

In Response to Re:FFF:[QUOTE]Oh! And the Dddy's girl on the BUDGET board asking for a breakdown of hernbsp;entire wedding costs, including fireworks and boudoir photos so her dad quot;could sleep at nightquot;. on the BUDGET BOARD. nbsp;We're not going to do your research for you. Posted by beardownbchs[/QUOTE]

Link? This sounds entertaining.