FI better have lost his phone...

maggyruth

or be dead.

Ok, I'm actually hoping for the first one.  I haven't heard from him since Friday.  LDR's suck, and I don't have the phone numbers of any of his coworkers who might be able to check and make sure he's alive, and he doesn't have internet at home.

Just call me, dammit!!!

jasmineh7777

That is the worst feeling ever. Ugh. Is there a certain time that you guys usually talk?

AmoroAgain

Um, what??  That's messed up!  There are ways he can get ahold of you without a phone and internet at home.  Like the library where they have all kinds of lovely free computers.

Nebb

Maybe hes in jail? I knwo thats not ideal but its better than dead!

agk0125

My FI would be in a world of hurt if he went that long without contacting me. He's out of town right now and we talk at least once a day.

Only I actually did lose my phone last night so now we can't talk..I really suck at life.

maggyruth

We normally talk at 8 central (my time) 9 eastern (his time).  I tried calling him yesterday, no answer (it's happened before...he sleeps like a log.) but I've tried calling him a couple of times today and still no answer, and after awhile, I just get anxious.

It would be one thing if his family were around, but they're in TN, he's in NJ, and I'm in WI.  I'm a worrier, so that doesn't help matters.

jasmineh7777

Just try to keep yourself busy. It's sooo much worse when you are sitting waiting for a call.

Arez16

I you reach him/he calls soon! I'm the same way with FI and he is only 45 mins away haha I think most girls tend to worry

maggyruth

He's alive!  He just called me.  Turned out he slept most of yesterday (and fell asleep again when it was time to call me) and slept today until about 2 pm eastern.  His line when I picked up the phone was "Worry much?"  Ya think?

Anyway, I know now he's alive and kicking, or at least alive and awake.

Silly men.

jasmineh7777

Phew. Now go kick his butt!

maggyruth

Seriously...that's absolutely what I want to do.  Grrrr....

miss.jawright

at least he's not dead! Men don't see things the way we do. It can be frustrating!

carrieoz_76

And they sleep like cats - i.e. 20 hrs. a day.  Or would if you let them.

katieanne85

So glad everythings ok, Im the same way, we live in different states but usually text all day, helps us feel like we are somewhat involved in eachothers lives, but I start to worry after a few hours, and he does with me, sending me texts asking if Im alive when I have just fallen asleep! Lol