Wedding Etiquette Forum

Engaged to married guest help

My nephew is getting married 4 weeks before me.  Since many of my guests are OOT, I will be sending invites approx. 10 weeks ahead of time.  Nephew and his FI will still be engaged at the time I send invites, but married by the time the wedding rolls around.  Should I just adjust everything accordingly? 

Ex: Send invites as:
Mr. John Smith 
Ms. Jane Doe

Escort cards at reception as: Mr. and Mrs. John Smith

Or should I send the invite as if they are already married since that is how they will be named for my wedding/reception?

I'm probably way over thinking this, but would like some input :)
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